Friday 31 December 2021

Dune 2021

Mulan said I had to write one more blog post before the end of the year.  67 is a bad number to finish on.

She even wrote it for me:

On Wednesday Mulan and I went to the movies. We had been planning to go and see the new Dune movie when it came out but didn't notice when it did and almost missed seeing it! My review on the books is here.

Sounds good to me.

Mulan read the book a couple of years ago, and last year when we heard they were making a new movie we said we had to see it.

It's a great movie.  Highly recommended.  Far better than the other two screen versions of the book.

That's all.  Happy New Year.

Sunday 19 December 2021

Discus

The Colgate Games North Island children's athletics competition is in three weeks in Wellington.

We'll all be there.  (Don't worry burglars, we've arranged a house-sitter to stay and look after our cats.)  Mulan has signed up for 80m hurdles, long jump, discus, shot put and 4x100m relay.  Miya has signed up for high jump, shot put and discus.

From Wednesday, after Mulan and Miya's contemporary dance exams have happened, athletics will be our number one priority.

Today we were at the track de-rusting the discus.  Mulan has quickly got back into the swing of it, pushing the discus out to almost 25 metres, over a couple of metres more than her PB from last season.  This was her final throw today.

It's also starting to come right for Miya, with throws of almost 16 metres only a metre or so off her last season's best.  Once it clicks again she'll be getting PBs.

Thursday 16 December 2021

Mulan's ballet

Yesterday evening the family went to watch Mulan's open-viewing ballet class.  (It clashed with athletics club night, but seeing Mulan dance was more important.)

While we had seen Mulan dancing at home during her Covid lockdown Zoom lessons, it's been ages since we'd seen her properly in the studio.

Some of the dances are for Mulan's RAD Advanced Foundation exam on Saturday, while others were just for fun in classes.  Mama videoed some of them:





Wednesday 15 December 2021

HASCA and Covid

HASCA is the local homeschooling organisation that organises and provides a centre for sport and cultural activities for homeschoolers on the North Shore (Auckland).

In some cases, it's the only place that local homeschoolers can access activities (as otherwise it's via the schools).

Today, as HASCA members, we received an email from HASCA leadership:

Re: Temporary Hibernation

14/12/21

Dear HASCA members and friends,

We have been silent throughout lockdown and the subsequent change from the Alert Level System to the Covid Protection Framework (CPF) as, 1) we have basically been unable to operate, and 2) we have wanted to watch and wait and make a considered decision on how HASCA will move forward under the new mandates.

As well as the government’s directives, our decisions have been influenced by the organisations we partner with - the sports organisations, programme providers, and the venues we hire and utilise to bring our classes and programmes to our home-schooling community. Unfortunately, many are either under government mandate themselves, or have their own in-house mandates which will impact on HASCA’s operations and our ability to provide any sort of non-discriminatory programme for the immediate future.

HASCA strives to be an inclusive organisation that brings people together, connects and supports, and “creates community” for all home educating families. Therefore, segregating or excluding participation based on vaccine status is not something we feel comfortable adopting, and is not where our hearts are placed. Our goal has always been to bring people together, not to divide. We do not want to operate any of what we previously offered if participation and inclusion is based on a vaccine status or the presence of a vaccine-pass. It is for this reason that the HASCA committee has decided that HASCA and all activities operating under our umbrella will hibernate for the foreseeable future. This has been a difficult decision for us, but we simply cannot run programmes knowing we must exclude select families.

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We think they've got this badly wrong.  They make it sound like vaccinations are mostly meaningless, having no significant impact on the health and safety of others who we might interact with.  We have replied to them as follows:

Hi HASCA leadership,
 
As long-term HASCA members we respectfully disagree with this HASCA decision.  We hope that you will reconsider.
 
It's sad that it's the kids who will be the losers in this HASCA decision.  Something is better than nothing for homeschooled children; for HASCA to remove this option for local families is wrong as in many cases this is the only place where local homeschooling children can participate.
 
There is no unfair discrimination in the vaccine pass mandates; it's about following the science, protecting the vulnerable, giving people free choices, then people accepting the consequences of their free choices.  Requiring vaccine passes when people gather in larger groups protects everyone by slowing down the transmission of a contagious disease that would otherwise overwhelm the hospitals.  In saying this, we accept the overwhelming majority opinion of the experts.  As homeschoolers, we aim to model good reasoning to our children.
 
We feel that as a vaccinated family we have done the right thing for the community, and it is not right that vaccinated families are now being penalised by HASCA, just because of the free choices of non-vaccinated families.
 
We assume this means that HASCA won't be organising the Athletics Day and Swimming Day in 2022.  But please do let us know if anything changes.
 
Glenn, Xiaoying, Mulan and Miya

Likely, next year our family would have done the HASCA Athletics and Swimming Days in term 1 (which we help organise), and Miya would have signed up for the HASCA netball team (terms 2 and 3).

UPDATE (17/12/2021): HASCA also posted a similar announcement to their Facebook page, to which I commented that we (our family) respectfully disagreed with their decision and linked to this blog for details.

To date there have been four responses.  Three other members commented on the Facebook announcement, thanking the HASCA committee for their work.  And HASCA leadership emailed me privately, letting me know that the HASCA committee unanimously agreed with the decision.  At no time so far has anyone responded to the substantive points.

I want to emphasise that everyone has been extremely polite and nice about it.  Everyone thanks each other and wishes each other all the best.  Once again, I have no doubt that everyone sees themselves as the good guys -- they believe they are doing the decent and right thing.  And for the most part they are.  Homeschoolers really are nice people, and we enjoy spending time with them.

But I also want to acknowledge that old saying -- the road to hell is paved with good intentions.

In this situation, HASCA leadership has made the decision to block access to education for local homeschooled children.  They can coat it with nice words, but the fact remains that they have made things worse for local homeschooled children.

The only reason they have given for this so far is that they think that the vaccine pass requirement for large group gatherings is unfairly discriminatory, and they don't want to exclude anyone.  So they'd rather exclude everyone.

It is fair enough if, individually, their families (committee members and the three Facebook commentators) choose to not participate until all families can participate -- that is their free right to freely choose for themselves.  (I understand that some families see HASCA as more about social gatherings.)

But it is wrong for HASCA leadership to deny other families the opportunity to make this free choice for themselves.  And it is wrong for HASCA leadership to reduce educational opportunities for children without providing alternatives.  As I see it, HASCA leadership has overstepped their duties by dictating (mistaken) morals to their members, while at the same time failing to uphold their more fundamental duty of providing educational opportunities to children that are otherwise only available to schooled children.

In my opinion, the correct thing for HASCA committee to do is to keep HASCA operating (for now), but acknowledge and accept the right for any HASCA families to not participate until they feel comfortable doing so.  This may mean a reduced leadership group, and committee members would be more than free to step aside for now.  It may also mean that HASCA would need to ask members to join the committee to continue to keep things running (I would consider it, if necessary); if they were unable to get the committee numbers then hibernating would be the right choice.

Given the (limited) feedback to date, there is a distinct possibility that a significant number of HASCA members are either (a) unable to participate because they have chosen to not vaccinate, or (b) unwilling to participate as they (mistakenly) see vaccine pass mandates as unfairly discriminatory.  If this is the case, then there is a distinct possibility that activity sign-up numbers would be too low to proceed anyway.  And so there is a distinct possibility that most (or all) HASCA activities would have to practically stop anyway due to insufficient numbers.   If this is the case, then so be it.

But HASCA leadership should have kept things going long enough to find this out first, one way or the other.  They should have opened it up to the members first, for the members to freely decide.  They should not have denied freedoms to their members.  And they should have thought more about the children who are missing out because of their decision to stop offering activities.

Monday 13 December 2021

Life in the Covid red traffic light

It's been ten days since we left Covid Level 3 lockdown and moved to the red traffic light system.

For us, the main changes have been:

  • Mama is back teaching in-person from home.  While some students are still preferring to have Zoom lessons, many are having lessons in our at-home classroom.  They stay socially distanced on opposite sides of the room, and keep the air circulating with the windows open and a fan going.  Scanning in is there, and Covid passes are shown.
  • Mulan is back doing in-person ballet lessons at the dance studio (our dining room is back being a dining room again!).  With the exam on Saturday, she's having classes about every second day.
  • Miya and I are back rock climbing in the gym, going three times a week.  Our hands are super-soft, and our endurance is way down, but we're steadily de-rusting.  It's tough climbing with a mask on, but much better than nothing.
  • The girls have both got gymnastics and contemporary dance classes in-person again (exams for contemporary next Wednesday).
  • The girls are both re-starting their in-person private music lessons at our place with their music teachers.
Mulan's school is not much different from before.  Mulan's swimming school decided not to restart classes for her level this year.  Miya's music school decided to continue classes online for the year.  Miya's clarinet exam is cancelled this year, and she'll do it next year.  And athletics is mostly the same as in Level 3 -- club nights and senior interclub competitions but no children's interclub competitions.

In other words, life is mostly normal now for us, except for the mask-wearing, scanning check-ins, and relaxed-but-continued social distancing.

Sunday 12 December 2021

Ballet and jumping

Yesterday was quite busy for Mulan.

In the morning she did two and a half hours of ballet, and in the afternoon did another hour of contemporary dance.

In between she did six triple jumps, two of which bettered her Takapuna Athletics Club record from last season.  Her best legal jump is now 9.58m.

I also jumped.  My 10.80m was 5cm off my club record.  I didn't do any ballet.

The results are here.

Monday 6 December 2021

Frank Turek

Mulan has a good memory.

YouTube suggested that I watch this video while I was eating.  (Okay, it hasn't yet started giving breakfast  suggestions, but that's when I usually browse YouTube.)

It's a video by Drew McCoy of Genetically Modified Skeptic, who I've started watching lately.  I'm impressed by Drew.  He has a great attitude to discussing religion, coming across as super-nice and really emphasising being kind.  In the world of religion YouTubers he stands out as the nice guy, making his videos a pleasure to watch.

Mulan happened to pass by when I was about five minutes into the video.  She said, "isn't that Turek?"

I said, "who?"

"The one who [cousin] was studying for school and you commented on?"

Finally it clicked for me.  Yes, Drew was discussing the co-author of a book that I wrote about last year in response to my niece's Year 13 school assignment.

I have a sad habit of forgetting names and only (sometimes) remembering ideas.  But I was surprised that Mulan remembered Turek's name; I thought she hadn't been that interested in the topic.  I'm very happy that she is quietly taking it in.

Mulan stayed to watch, and we laughed at Douglas Adams' well-told puddle story.

Wednesday 1 December 2021

Stimming

Haha, I remember sitting in the classroom at school doing this stim for hours:

I'm enjoying Hunter Hansen's autism YouTube channel.  I haven't been diagnosed, but I have many of the characteristics at a functioning level.  I made the connection in my early 20s while doing my psychology degree (which I specifically did to try to understand others better).  While I don't care whether or not I really am autistic, looking into it has definitely helped me in a practical way to learn coping strategies so I don't get too overwhelmed.

This was a good video:

I especially like that Hunter comes across as pretty "normal".  While my immediate family accepts my occasional autism-ish-ness, my extended family directly say they don't believe it.  I like his video on masking; it really felt true to me: